With NLP you will have a different perspective for every misunderstanding, as you will start noticing the non-verbal messages you’re getting, to easily find out the blocking points and eventually change the means you usually use to communicate!
Remember, when in conflict – step outside of your view, you can come back to it later!
Most people get stuck in conflict for as long as they aren’t able to get past their own views. If you want to resolve the dispute, take a moment to step out of your position in order to understand and gain clarity on theirs.
A pro-NLP tip is to step back from both positions and look at what you both are missing like you are holding on and caring for your relationship.
In NLP, we are reminded that the map is not the territory. Instead of defending your own map, seek to understand and learn from the maps which other people use to navigate through the world.
You are, after all, the only person, you are capable of changing. So, before you go and try to change anyone else to enhance your relationship, ask yourself “how can I change myself to start having better-nurturing relationships?!”
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