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THE KEY TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP

🖊Batoul Khalifeh

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🕓15 minutes

However, Love is so powerful that it can create as well as it can destroy, It can save as well as it can drown.

As relationships mature, we start noticing things that we never used to notice. They suddenly grate on you, and bad habits become impossible to live with, yet you desperately want to hold onto the amazing love you had for each other at the beginning.

If you really want to find a solution, Things could be easier than you think, with the help of NLP!

To begin with, communication is one of the most influential factors in a relationship. Communication never stops. Whenever there is any social contact, there is communication. Even When a couple has a fight and stops talking, they are actually communicating their anger and frustration.

Much of our own communication with others is non-verbal and unconscious. We send out signals all the time without even knowing what we are doing. That’s why, NLP helps in becoming aware of the way we communicate with other people which is a vital first step in improving our relationships.

As we usually blame others for not understanding our message, we put ourselves in the victim position that stops us from seeing the opportunities each fight opens for us.

NLP Can Be The Key to have a Successful Relationship

With NLP you will have a different perspective for every misunderstanding, as you will start noticing the non-verbal messages you’re getting, to easily find out the blocking points and eventually change the means you usually use to communicate!

 

Remember, when in conflict – step outside of your view, you can come back to it later!

 

Most people get stuck in conflict for as long as they aren’t able to get past their own views. If you want to resolve the dispute, take a moment to step out of your position in order to understand and gain clarity on theirs.

 

A pro-NLP tip is to step back from both positions and look at what you both are missing like you are holding on and caring for your relationship.

 

In NLP, we are reminded that the map is not the territory. Instead of defending your own map, seek to understand and learn from the maps which other people use to navigate through the world.

have a successful relationship with NLP

Now, what about RESPECT?

Well, the underpinning of productive communication is having respect for the other person’s model of the world. Respect allows you to accept another person’s point of view without judgment.

This includes all verbal communication, as well as non-verbal ones. The “look” that tells a thousand words, a grunt or a groan. All of these responses no matter how small are dismissive.

NLP plays an important role in teaching us the real meaning of “respect” and how to actually do it.
have a successful relationship with NLP
Mastering this skill will magically help us accept that actively listening to others without necessarily agreeing with them, is profound to the success of any relationship.

These are only a few of the astonishing improvements NLP can do to help you in resolving your conflicts and ameliorate your relationship.

Mahatma Gandhi is quoted as saying “Be the change you want to see in the world”.

You are, after all, the only person, you are capable of changing. So, before you go and try to change anyone else to enhance your relationship, ask yourself “how can I change myself to start having better-nurturing relationships?!”

 

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